Flash problems on websites

Flash is such a pain when it loads automatically on websites. I hate that if you try using the tab key, the flash component responds to it and you can't break out of the flash object. Usually it's flash videos (like youtube). There needs to be a method to break out of the flash object and allow tabs to normally work within with web browser. I do use Firefox with FlashBlock extension so the objects won't load automatically and I love it, yet when I enable the flash object, the tab feature is overtaken by flash!